No connection for FTP. My website states not there. As far as I can tell, you don't exist except for your own service site. What's going on? Ready to move on.
It's an easy answer, Use Dream for building your site and Flash to add pizzazz.
Overdoing Flash elements is not recommended.
Flash doesn't make anything but swf's as far as I know so is useless for making a site.
Good question about the coding language. There seems to be a lot of choice out there!