About my girlfriend

[Franc0]

hey guys. well let me tell you something that is currently happening to me..


its about my love.. joselyn... shes 17 im 19 and shes a sweetheart. god i think she is the girl i need to marry, really.. i have been with her for 2 years 6 months (this feb 14)... she prepares me dinner and always buying me stuff. these 2 years and a half at the beggining was al great times.. then at like @ month 9 problems started to surge. I couldnt have female friends because she would get insanely jelouse, i put up with that for about 8 months more. until i told her i couldt support her anymore and her stupid rules... right now she has changed alot and understands that friends are friends.. but she always being a bit jelous and stuff. me too but her im a man


anyways.. that's not why im posting this.. its because you see. jan 30 she left to the 5th region of my country (valparaiso, chile) its like 5 states up to the north.. and well i guerss shes coming back tommorow..
and something that really bothers me is that she hasnt called for anything.. her cousing went with her. and she called her boyfriend. but my girlfriend hasnt called me and i somewhat feel like she doesnt care for me enough...

Everytime i go out for vacations i am the one to call her and tell her im okey. always.. and now when she leaves she doesn even send me an email, and really sucks...... i havent called her either because i know maybe she is getting used to it.


well i hope i can read everyones opinion.

 

[higgsy789]

Dude you gotta talk to her about it let her know how u feel, im no expert but maybe she thinks the same, maybe she thinks you have changed and maybe she diddnt call you because she was waiting for you to call her

 

[Franc0]

yeah i guess so. thanks for the reply man.. glad to read that someone in x10 has a heart..

XD

 

[Loneua Technologies]

If you want to know whats going on. Ask. If you "Marry" this girl and you

don't even know if she really cares about you. Your screwed. Tell her how

you feel and if she isn't on the same page and doesn't feel like working it out

then she would be history in my books.

 

[port5900]

No worrys dude shes chillin and having fun. But I think you should tell her how you feel in a nice way not a angry upset way. and good advice from Higgsy....I also had a girl friend who wound not call me cause she figures shes bothering me

 

[Franc0]

@loneua yeah im gonna talk to her...

@port oh yeah? well maybe thats whats happening to her..

i just think so many bad things also about her.. shes having fun with other guys.. and stuff.. since she hasnt called. im thinking she is having to much fun with guys

 

[Loneua Technologies]

Well,

Do you know her cousin? Maybe you could ask her what they did there.

Not suspiciously or anything. Try to get her to reveal information she is not

supposed to. Never go to a girl angry or mean (unless they are cheating on

you!). They will kill you for it.

Good Luck Man.

 

[Franc0]

your gonna be impressed..

the reason why im kinda worried is because her sousin doesnt have a "good" past..


when she was like 14 she was very flirty and did it wth a 19 year old and then they got caught and the guy went to jail and he killed himself.. she is kinda like a slut..

im worried because maybe she could make her do some crazy ****..

oh well dont worry.. i will spy her the first day she arrives ajajaj! LOL..

 

[tittat]

dont worry dude....she leaves you because she loves you more....call her and speak....everything will be oky with a friendly talk.
try to speak about your marriage,and look how she responds.


send the following facts to her via email or something...let her understand more about you.
if this idea clicks dont forget to give me some credits...ok?


*33 Facts about Guyz
*really very true...................

Girls r surely going to read it


*Belive it or not.......
1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat
and presentable girls.

2. Guys hate flirts.

3.When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not
thinking the way he is.

4. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep,
they always think about the girl they truly care about.

5. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad
characteristics.

6. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.

7. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.

8. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.

9. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow".
.... so true.

10. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the
message clearly.

11. Guys love their moms.

12. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple
of roses.

13. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't
mean that the guy likes her.

14. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.

15. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.

16. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of
the earth faster than girls can.

17. Like Eve, girls are guys' weaknesses.

18. Guys are very open about themselves.

19. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let
him wait that long.

20. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.

21. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that
much pretty.

22. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to
listen to him. You don't need to give advice ... very true.

23. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases
you.

24. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.

25. Guys think too much.

26. Guys fantasies are unlimited.

27. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight
does! ... very true.

28. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too
possessive. So watch out girls!!!

29. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is
about girls.

30. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him
praying sometimes.

31. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.

32. Guys hate girls who overreact.

33. Guys love his girl more than girl love them IF they are serious in
relationships.
Doesn't this all make sense?

 

[Loneua Technologies]

That is pretty much true.

LOL, you could probably break her and get some information.

First, talk to your girlfriend. I am sure by now you know how she is right?

If you look at her you know if she is serious or not. Ask her to move in with

you when she turns 18, ask her something serious. She probably feels bored

of the relationship. Spice it up a bit. Use all of your resources.....(Friends,

Cousins, Brothers to get information if nothing else).

 

[noerrorsfound]

Doesn't this all make sense?

No. None of those are true about every man. I was going to put examples here but I decided they aren't necessary as anyone could point out situations where the above generalizations are completely false.

 

[Franc0]

yeea thanks guys. i will post all the info i get on her.. and i will tell you guys why she hasent called. i hope she gets back by tommorow morning .

Thanks all.!


-To Be Continued-

 

[gwuapo2007]

you can send a text mesage to her cellphone if she have a cellular phone. that way is easy. so, you can instantly know what she is doing at the moment. you can also phone her on her c.p
or you might as well, go to her place. I think that place is just 1 hour away, to check her out how she is doing

 

[Swiblet]

Aw, dude, I'm sorry for not answering this earlier when it really counted...I've been busy >.<

Well, everything I wanted to say has been said. I'm sure she'll have a great explanation for it when she gets back. Keep in mind that she IS younger than you, and teens tend to be a little absent-minded when it come to that stuff, even if it's important, so be lenient ^_~

Keep us posted!

~~B3N

 

[tgkprog]

ask her how she feels about u and why she did not call and tell her that u expected a call and it hurt that she did not. keep cool and react after thinking

 

[Jesse]

When you will marry him just be sure that you really love each other.

 

[warlordste]

well ino this is what you already herd but u gotta tell her ow u feel and get everything sorted before u marry her or it won't work out the way it sould lol

 

[DefecTalisman]

Not sure if this has been said yet, but women are complicated and it could be many reasons why she distanced her self from you. The most obvious is the caring game. Maybe she was looking for a little reassurance that you still cared for her even with having female friends.

Another thing that comes to mind is she is only 17 and needs to get around a little to see that its not about the money, looks, image and so on. Its about the love and the compassion that 2 people can share. Its about having someone always connected to you, your mind and heart. Every decision you and her make should reflect the companion. Be it whats for dinner to career moves. If you aren't in each others minds and on the same level then you got an up hill battle.

I have been with my lovely lady for over 2 years now. I proposed to her just before the 2 year mark. But our love has only grown stronger and more intense since day one. I have had my fair share of relationships and never thought I would get married.

 

[QueenHawkeye]

She overly jealous of your relationship issues? It's not going to help much once you get married.