Calling a girl fat and getting.....

[osaeed2003]

I call some girl in my physcology class on aim chat "hey fatty wats up" "jk" "lol"

she got pissed and said "that is the most stupidest fu...ing joke i ever heard" "bye"


I was like ok biatch bye bye lol

she kicked my nuts when i went to class. thank god it happeend before class started. shes cute lol

Will she ever talk to me again? shes not fat i was just kidden around

 

[masshuu]

LOL try again?

the kicking in the nuts shows deap hatred or passon.

 

[Socius]

I think it shows how greatly she is scared for what other people think of her.
Perhaps she used to have or still has a eating disorder because she thinks she is fat
Most girls I know can stands such jokes, but some not... mostly cause they have trauma's about it...
Or she just like to kick ya
Anyway, it's not your fault I guess, people just have to take the joke or else explain why it is bad. Then if you retry you can get a nut kick but then you would have known

 

[Starshine]

Anyway, it's not your fault I guess, people just have to take the joke or else explain why it is bad. Then if you retry you can get a nut kick but then you would have known

Not their fault? Can't take a joke?
What part of the world do you honestly live in?

First, unless she was a dear, close friend - walking up and calling anyone fat, or fatty is an insult. My fiance is heavyset and if you did it to her, I'd do more than just knock your family jewels into your throat.

Second, calling her another name deserved the kick to the nuts.

Anyway, back to the original poster. Do you WANT her to talk to you again? Surprising that this girl didn't visit the school counselor or principal and report you for harassment.

 

[port5900]

epic fail dude
Never ever call a girl fat even a skinny one.

 

[osaeed2003]

"Anyway, back to the original poster. Do you WANT her to talk to you again? Surprising that this girl didn't visit the school counselor or principal and report you for harassment."

do u want her to talk to u?

Of couse why did i say that shes cute? lol.

 

[Socius]

@ Star Shine
First, according to the Original poster it was NOT in any way a 'fat girl'...
Calling someone fat who obviously isn't fat, is a joke...
the 'jk' and 'lol' underline the joke part. If you don't know what they mean, then what are you doing on aim chat?

Second, the poster knows the girl in question, he has classes with her. It's not that he walked up to a random girl and said hey fatty..

Sure it's offensive to call someone fat, BUT given the circumstances as far as i can track them down. Only a cavemen with no sense of modern society and it's everyday 'cruel' humor can't see it's a joke. Or as i said someone with some sort of trauma.

Oh btw, I live in Holland, part of Europe Our economy isn't falling down nor are we killing/suing anyone who doesn't have the same vision as we.

 

[Smith6612]

Not my fault people can't take those lame jokes. She'll forget about that eventually, but most likely won't like you very much until you do nice things again.

 

[Starshine]

First, according to the Original poster it was NOT in any way a 'fat girl'...

Doesn't matter. In today's society, with celebrities and models trying to show that a size 0 is "all the rage" and girls as young at 7 using diet pills because they are too fat. Joking or not, it leaves a mental imprint on the young lady.

Second, the poster knows the girl in question, he has classes with her. It's not that he walked up to a random girl and said hey fatty..

Taking the info that was provided, I wasn't exactly sure. All that was stated was "I called *Some Girl* in my class" ... that doesn't quite tell me that she was known to the poster. I have a few "some girls" in my classes, doesn't mean I know them.

Sure it's offensive to call someone fat, BUT given the circumstances as far as i can track them down. Only a cavemen with no sense of modern society and it's everyday 'cruel' humor can't see it's a joke. Or as i said someone with some sort of trauma.

So, calling you "Euro-Trash" is acceptable then? Because that just cruel humor? I never stated that where you live is some war-torn country, but in today's "modern" society - that type of humor is frowned upon.

Its like going up to the head cheerleader and slapping her butt after a game, because its acceptable in some other parts of the world. ( And because, its just a friendly jesture that football players do ) ...

BTW, I have been around computers probably longer than you've been on this earth, I know what LOL and JK mean ( Hence, Laughing out Loud and Just Kidding ) and I happen to be a Psychology major.

 

[Starshine]

Not my fault people can't take those lame jokes. She'll forget about that eventually, but most likely won't like you very much until you do nice things again.

A lame joke is "Wanna hear a dirty story? ... I fell in the mud" ... Or "Pull my finger" ... calling a young lady fat is not a lame joke, but a cruel statement, regardless if the girl is fat or not. I have a 10 year old god-daughter that is trying to diet because girls around her are skinnier than her, or taller than her or have bigger boobs. Try and explain that calling her fat is just a joke. She takes it very seriously.

 

[Smith6612]

But because it was intended as a joke, I consider it "lame", that's my whole meaning behind that.

 

[Socius]

The lol and jk and don't knowing them wasn't for you, but for the *some girl*

Doesn't matter. In today's society, with celebrities and models trying to show that a size 0 is "all the rage" and girls as young at 7 using diet pills because they are too fat. Joking or not, it leaves a mental imprint on the young lady.

I know that, But it's not some 'young girl' that's studying Psychology. Someone who is old enough to study should have learned by now what is important in life...

The Euro-Trash thing, I doubt you know me, not even from classes so it's a bit of a wrong example But I'm not.

I might have given the wrong impression, I'm not pro doing what you like because it's a joke. But people sometimes, even when they are offended, try to talk.
The girl in question kicked him in the nuts.
You were surprised she didn't report him.
Wouldn't it be best if she said to they guy (example) "What!?... hehe That went a bit too far"
Then he could explain why he did it ect.
I must admit it's not the same as accepting it, but that's my fault and my language skills :/
As far as i can see it was intended as a joke, and people should be able to recognize it as a joke. If you feel right away offended and take drastic measures then.. well... how do you communicate with people?

I just found out that the translation is 'dry humor'. You say something serious, while it's obvious not true. It's like a not joke without the not.

 

[Russ]

Ok. Before this gets out of hand, lets just close it. First poster, apologize to her, it may take some time. Give it to her, allow her to cool off. Don't push the issue. And, lets just let this one lay. Thanks for playing!

 

[port5900]

as much as i dont like SunShine for removing some of my utterly useless post. I must say I strongly agree with him. And do as Rpope says. It would be best for you to walk up to her and say "Hey I'm sorry for my lame @$$ joke I made the other day." I hope you do the right thing and not wuss out and act like nothing ever happened.

 

[DefecTalisman]

epic fail dude
Never ever call a girl fat even a skinny one.

I love the way you worder that man.

Everyone has to find out somehow. I never answer "how do I look in this, do I look fat?" question for the fear of sleeping on the couch. Women cant be fat, they can be as Starshine said so nicely "heavyset" or big boned.

On the other hand if you wanted to insult her, then that was a great way to do it. Subtle and to the point.