how hard is it to understand females

[warlordste]

right do you understand this coz i dunno where i stand ani more you like a girl the girl then flirts with me and but sometimes don't :S then she come on to u at the party but u say no god knows why !!! it don't feel right taking advantage then a couple of days later you speak to her she says she dunno ow she feels about u she needs to spend time with you and see wtf is it all about why can't it just be a simple answer :dunno:

 

[Dazz]

Well first off good on you for having the scruples not to take advantage, most blokes would have and there it would have ended. Maybe with serious implications to you.

Now to the serious part, she seems to be interested in you and wants to get to know you so you need to spend some time with her and talk. Doesn't matter what you talk about (just don't be babbling about computers if she doesn't know what one is or anything lol) the most important thing is to LISTEN, find out what she likes, find out what her interests are and if you have to make a mental note and Google them when you get home. But find out about her so that you can talk about what she is interested in and let her know that she is important enough to you to be interested IN her and not just interested in DOING her. Talk to her, reassure her and be a Gentleman and you can't really go wrong.

If things click, your in. Some rules if they do click -
1. She is ALWAYS right.
2. Even if she's not, SHE IS.
3. Don't ever, ever try to force anything or its all over.

Hope I've helped, at least a little bit.

(Dazz, once legendary womanizer. Now married for 6 years and counting LOL)

Edit - And its really really really really Hard, didn't you know they're from Venus LOL

 

[warlordste]

cheers for the advice and yer ino most guys would of took advantage well we will see how it plays out lol

 

[Swiblet]

Good luck, dude =] You're going to need it!

~~B3N

 

[QuwenQ]

I find it more hard to understand what you're typing.

 

[Little_Cider]

women are confusing alot of the times mate lol , now as u was at party it could of been she had a couple of drinks and thought that seemed like a good idea at the time and next day thought that should get to know u first which is fair enuff , lets face it we all done it from time 2 time lol , but good luck wid it mate , i give up on woman at moment guna enjoy bein single lol

 

[Avalanche]

Understanding women is like winning in the lottery, even though there is a tiny chance to succeed, you must be a fool to try it.

And yes, do no argue with them. Just remember that they are right, arguing with a woman usually has the same success rate as trying to punch a hole in a brick wall with your head.

 

[QuwenQ]

As Chris Rock said:

"We cannot argue with woman. We men are handicapped when it comes to arguments because we have a need to make sense."

 

[Xemnas]

So THAT'S why the girls don't like me . . . thanks for shedding light on this :biggrin:

I find it more hard to understand what you're typing.

As Chris Rock said:

"We cannot argue with woman. We men are handicapped when it comes to arguments because we have a need to make sense."

What is it that you're getting at?

 

[QuwenQ]

So THAT'S why the girls don't like me . . . thanks for shedding light on this :biggrin: What is it that you're getting at?

Well, I was trying to get at "You're an absolute idiot" on the first comment, and the second one was simply a joke.

 

[Swiblet]

xDD And for the record, Xemnas, she was talking to the other guy when referring to the "idiot" thing. Chris Rock...he makes good points. I like the way he thinks. I...just hate his humor, voice, and personality. Too bad =<

Woman are not hard to understand, guys. Women (thank god) just aren't masculine and guys need to realize that and soften up a bit.

~~B3N

 

[Dra_chan]

Well, first of all, a problem with guys is that you try to put all the women in a single stereotype. There is no magic formula to "understand women", because every single woman is different. Think about it, you are asking how to understand half of the world. Consider all the factors: education, motivations, experiences, preexisting genetic characteristics, etc, etc.

If you re-read your post you will realize that she gave you quite a simple answer: she wants to know you better before having a relationship with you. That means she is considering having a serious relationship but she wants to be sure you are a right guy for her. So, duh just do it. If you really like her show her your stuff!

 

[InsanityOnline]

I find it more hard to understand what you're typing.

That is exactly what I was going to say.

 

[satbir]

I think there cannot be any simpler answer than that. She want to understand you. May be it is easy for guys to go ahead and change relationship on click of fingers but for girls it is always very difficult decision emotionally and socially. Therefore she have full right to first understand before building any relationship.

 

[mattura]

She is probably thinking the same thing about you/guys!
Put it into her perspective -
Maybe she fancied you and flirted at the party, and when you seemed interested, she made a bold move, and you said no ("why did he say no? I thought he liked me..."). So she told herself to forget you, but then you spoke to her later, and seemed keen again, no wonder she was a bit more reserved! ("maybe we should get to know each other better first..."). I guess she didn't want to look desperate by coming onto you a 2nd time and being rejected. She's also trying to help you out - she thinks that you are unsure about her, so suggests you spend time together to see if you 'click'.
Give her a chance, do as she says, and just spend quality time with her!
You'll find, if you fancy her, you'll make more of an effort to please her, and get to know her better, which is always a good thing, whether you end up together or not

 

[warlordste]

i given up tryed and tryed and its not gonna happen time to move on =/