I think this isn't really the site to ask for advice but.....
I knew I should have kept my seduction blog....hehe....
well you have what I call oneitus...it's when a guy is trying to get one girl and only that one girl. This hurts a person in many ways....it does not matter how you look to get someone....you need value...you need to have a reason for her to want you...blah blah blah...
I know a site that helps immensely with this...it has thousands of users and hundreds of things you can do, in a"guide" type of format to get who you want in about 30 minutes -60minutes I MEAN IT.
I deleted my blog, pickupartists.co.cc
which had many things to help....I sent you a message with the site.
Please rep, me for the link I sent you.