Was easy:
Hello <redacted>,
Thanks for your interest in SocialEngine. Neither of those domains are registered in our client database.
Please let me know if you have any other questions.
Best Regards,
Mara
SocialEngine.net
I asked Social Engine. At no point was it necessary for me to access or modify databases in any way, shape, or form. This same method works for verifying almost any paid software (any that keep a record of what domains are currently licensed to use the software, that is).
If you do indeed have a license for Social Engine, you need to update your license with them to reflect the correct domain, because they currently don't think you have a license. Once this is done, I'll be more than happy to re-verify it with them to confirm that it is indeed properly licensed, which would allow us to remove the suspension.
Edit: I should also point out that I have never once modified anyone's mysql databases or files to verify a license on -any- install. Ever. I'll forgive the insinuation that I would, but frankly it's much easier to just contact the developer's via their support system and ask.