lost connection to MySQL

[saurjk]

i just got a user warning:
Lost connection to MySQL server during query query:
is something wrong with the choping server??
my site is saurab.com.np

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also ... i get this "Warning: MySQL server has gone away query"

---------- Post added at 10:31 PM ---------- Previous post was at 10:27 PM ----------

according to this : http://drupal.org/node/259580
i have to edit the my.ini file in the mysql directory.. but that is not possible...
what can i do ?? has anyone got any ideas??

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i just closed my site.. will be looking in it after a few days..