Derek, do as i said, and then you can apply custom themes...
Mine is a vista type one.
(I accept no responsibility/liability for any damage this does to your version of windows... applying this theme without patching your dll will result in no titlebar buttons / etc).
To install the theme attached, you need to:
Get a UXTHEME.DLL Patcher for your version of windows, and patch your uxtheme.dll and then reboot your computer
Extract the Vista folder to C:\Windows\Resources\Themes
Open up Display Properties and select the theme.