Remote MySQL Problem

[Ant59]

My friend has started a website at www.kickjam.elementfx.com. He wants to be able to connect to my database at www.dgaming.exofire.net (www.dgaming.co.uk). I have added him into my remote mysql access page in cPanel and added the user kickjam to my database. The code on his site is this:

<?php
    $dbhost = 'www.dgaming.co.uk';
    $dbuser = '*****_kickjam';
    $dbpass = '*************';
    $dbname = '*****_smf';

    $conn = mysql_connect($dbhost, $dbuser, $dbpass) or die ('Error connecting to MySql');
    mysql_select_db($dbname);
    
    $query = "SELECT * FROM smf_members";
    $result = mysql_query($query);
    $num_rows = mysql_num_rows($result);
    $row = mysql_fetch_array($result, MYSQL_ASSOC);
    
    echo $row['realName'];

    mysql_close($conn);
?>

I have also tryed the host as www.dgaming.co.uk:3306.

 

[tnl2k7]

We don't allow remote MySQL connections, sorry.

-Luke.