Some thoughts...
Funny, it seems to affect WordPress, but not Drupal, Joomla, etc? None of the other PHP based systems?
And the WordPress people don't seem to answer how the supposed infection of the hosting system started. Logic would say through WordPress. But WordPress is...
Activity == Logging on to Forums
Logging onto cPanel does not count.
Logging onto Account Pane does not count
Also, if you unsuspend yourself, the system immediately checks to see if you have been active. It does not give you an automatic 31/14 days. Since you had not logged into the...
Enough
Past school age. Have discussed with friends a several times.
I would be likely to say that your options are way too extreme and polarized. The situation is not Black and White.
Define "support". And what do you mean by Israel & Palestine? The people or their governments?
You...
Add
Options -Indexes
to .htaccess . That way, if you do not have an index.xxx file in the directory, it will not display an directory listing page, but instead generate a "403 - Forbidden" message.
You have a slight advantage over most of us. You actually know what software you are running.
It usually comes with documentation and/or instructions. Quite often it will mention a file named something like configuration.php and tell you what/how to edit.
But since there are 24,674,314...
You also have the wrong username.
mySQL usernames on free hosting are of the form:
cPanelusername_anothername
So, if your cPanel name is also tweaky, you would have db usernames like tweaky_tom , tweaky_dick and tweaky_harry.