@ John Klyne
To summate, I ought to get a life?
Also I'd love to go up and kiss some chicks, but being as how I'm female, and not a lesbian, I think I'll pass. And btw, most women I know would be rather insulted by being kissed randomly by a guy. At the very least, they'd be highly confused. They might be amused. But usually the idea we get is "What kind of clown is this?" I suppose there are some women who like whimisical romantic guys and enjoy the rogue-like quality to it, but generally? Expect the woman to start carrying mace afterwards.
I made a mention in my first post, regarding myself not being sure you were a female or male. When I said, chicks or he, just replace it by the opposite sex.
Yes they would be thinking what kind of clown is this, but there far more to what I say. Going right up, and doing it, will not be good. But Going right up, talking, getting them aroused, and hugging and kissing within 10 minutes of a first conversation is what I mean. It happens, I know people who do this, and well, it's not the act of merely kissing a chick and walking away that develops a person's mind but the acts it takes, to get a person in that state of mind, to do it. And to get to that state of mind, you need to get the female, through your words, "charms"...looks don't really matter, but they do matter a bit.
I did not say you needed to get a life, I only said you needed a new thinking pattern. A new "thing" to regulate the way you think...learning the art of seduction is a great way. Not sure how it works for lady seductress' but I am sure, there is something, some power, or confidence that is built up, in the mere act of, chatting a guy up/hugging/kissing within 10 minutes, and walking away as if it never happened. Don't say females or males can't do this, because I know people both females and males who do.
Would be rather insulted by being kissed by a random guy? To what I have learned, most woman, like a guy who can lift them out of their little happy bubble, and perfect little world. Most woman I have been with at least, like a man who takes charge, and goes after what he wants. Most woman I have been with, like the men who let them (the girls) in on some adventure, and possibly pleasure.
"A person's eyes, is the way to their soul." That is how I think of it, and it is quite frankly true...tell me then
if you were walking down the street, and a guy your age, looks within your eyes, as you look within yours what does it do? You adrenaline starts rushing, you feel and hear the pounding of your heart, you feel, "different," more confident, happier and might possibly feel some form of attraction with that person with that single glance.
Learning to PU (pick-up) is a great way for a person to develop new thinking patterns, and learn how both sexes act, and react towards certain things. That is what I was saying you needed, you just needed a new thinking pattern. You factuallife, needed a new thinking pattern.
Some spark.
If you spend 10-20 minutes with your desirable sex, talking about the good feelings, and looking within their eyes, and getting touchy feel-y within the first glance. They are yours. There is more to saying such things, and how you say it, but that is not what I am trying to tell you.
Would a chick carry mace, the next time I saw them...after I did just walk up without saying a word, but looking into their eyes, kissing them and walking away?.... I seen people do it, and well the females reacted, shocked, and joyful...later on at least... : )
I have experimented, and no she did not carry mace, she did not rush away...I walked towards her up the stairs, she stood there, watching, me...in my eyes...
I ..."Hello there allow me to introduce myself my name is Klyne"(hugged her)
she..."so nice to meet you"
I..."It's been a long time sorry I've stayed away for so long, never meant to rush off like that."
she..."its not a problem"...
I...I didn't mean any harm, what I wanted to do is say hello, but excuse me hun, what is your name?"(I start holding both her hands then say this)
she...It's (then her name was here) ...what was yesterday about though? (she smiles...)
I..."That didn't have to end, we could start again? Then I went in for it again....
Well I couldn't stand there all day long.....said bye bye, i'll you see you again, she pulls out her number and I walk away...
That right there took literally less than 2 minutes.
Also I would like to point out, I'm a word for word artist. I say everything as I learn it. And well, what I said, I learned from a song, "Do you remember" by Jay Sean, feat. Lil Jon & Sean...you might be familiar.
It's not "What kind of clown is this" inside their mind, especially if they follow up with what I did, or something like that to an extent. It is how it's delivered, how it is delivered is more important than what is said. And what is said is more important than what the guy looks like.
Just walk around, say "hello" to every random cute or hot guy you see...when you can do that, without feeling...scared or anything else like that, you are set. You'll never make a mistake such as going to class when you weren't supposed to go to class, again...