10061 usually is that the server is not listening on that port, I noticed there you've listed your smtp server as your domain code, have you tried localhost?
If your place your files with a .php extension, and use the <?php tag, the code should work. Please make sure that the php files arent in cgi-bin and dont have 755 but are at most 644 (thats rw,r,r)
Your site is suspended for not having an index page.
You can check the reason for suspension by viewing your site aka http://port5900.x10hosting.com and entering your cpanel login in the check suspension reason box.
If you wish for the suspension to be lifted please use the "Request...
The first place we look is the domain you signed up for. You can always put up an index page which links to your subdomain - if you're happy to do that or put up a new index page of any reasonable content, we'll lift the suspension for you to do so.
When we refer to the default index page, when you first get an account we provide a welcome page, its called index.html and can be found in your public_html folder - this is the page we mean
When you changed your domain you added the www, I have removed this for you, this causes a problem as then your website thinks its really www.www.ob-modding.co.uk
Your forums may or may not work if they dont thats probably a configuration setting within the forums.
If you can get a backup of the db, theres every chance you can just upload the db and files with a small change to the config file which verifies name, username, password, and dbname for your database settings.
We tend to not be happy with youtube videos as it takes a video to be report on youtube for it to be removed, therefore there is and can be easily found much copyrighted material on it and similar sites.
1. Name server changes can take upto 72 hours to propogate.
2. IMHO no, but its not a bad thing it just means while your own personal domain is not working its very difficult for you to do things to your site.
3. yes
4. if you changed the name servers, no.
It depends exactly what you want to change.
If you signed up for mydomain.x10hosting.com and changed your mind and want say mydomain.exofire.net you can do that from http://x10hosting.com/account
If you want to go to your site as mydomain.com you would do best to park the "mydomain.com" after...