You ever consulated a pickup artist before?...I have had some experience...its how I got my wife hehe, and we practice on other potential mates every weekend. Well yea, don't ask why we are so free and so on it bugs me to think married couples can't do this.
Well let me start with this, if you have never met her in person, then it is not love. You may think it is love, but it just isn't. Want to test if it is? ...Walk around in the mall near your home and tell me if you didn't think you would want to be in the pants of at least 5 other girls other than the one from france...if you say no...it is love but let me also say this, love does not exist without meeting the person first...
Let me also say...if she did want you, she would pay for your ticket...if she doesn't she is wasting your time, and she is wasting your money. You may "love her" but if she loved you, this relationship would not be lead online...but in person. She would try to initiate more contact...not just stupid facebook or myspace or ANYTHING else related to the computer...or phone...you can't love a person until you are sure you really don't mind her hairy armpits, or stupid laugh, or the way she can't cook...or the way she moves and glances at other guys.
If you have to waste a cent on her, before you have sex with her...have sex and then leave her, she is not there for a long term relationship...
Let me also ask this...you seem like you have what I call oneItus...meaning you like one chick and have your eye on that one chick...how about you have sex with 10 other girls first and tell me if you think that specific frence girl is really the one for you.
If you do have sex with 10 other chicks, and still want that french girl and you still think you love her...then you probably think you do....love does not exist, without touching and feeling eachother. Without hearing the persons real voice or seeing them in person, hugging them in person..within the first minute, without that first minute hug it is not love...it is her, wanting to get everything she can from you, a average joe.
Don't be obsessive, forget her for now, and have fun with 10 other girls, 1 girl every 2 nights, if you get started...
You think you are in love...if you "think" then you are not in love.
If you say you do love her, then you do love "something" about her...
in my opinion, people who experience what I call oneItus are people who don't get noticed a lot, don't get who they want when they want them, and stick to one girl, even though that one girl may not be the best out there for them...people stay with a girl because they think it is all they can do...let me say, the way you look HAS ALMOST NO EFFECT on a girl...what you say, what actions you partake in, and how you make her feel are what makes a girl want to sleep with you...
If you really fell in love with a french girl, you would be out there trying to figure out HOW in the world you are going to get her....you would not be asking for help on a hosting forum...you would be asking for help in a pua (pick up artist forum) my wife has this guy that has wanted my wife since high school...thing is, that guy has always told her..."oh I love you" "Oh I can't live without you" or "OMG your body looks so fine)...that garbage won't work...
So let me say this out front, don't take anything I said, lightly...take it all in, seriously buddy...
You do not love her, you can't love her, and if you do, it shows you just can't get another girl, get with 10 other chicks and tell me if she is still the best for you...when you do that, go right ahead and ask her to pay for your ticket...if she does not...SHE DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU...SHE JUST WANTS SOMETHING YOU ARE CURRENTLY OFFERING...a mere friend...that lives the pacific ocean away.
Have fun with 10 other girls first, take it from me, don't waste your time on long distance relationships...especially if you met 5 months ago, on facebook.
