Wow, "I'm sorry your answer wouldn't bring a smile to my face" sounds a lot like the way I think and talk....I would help but I don't have time...
Here is where I teach you something.
If help was really needed, in any form or manner, more effort would have been made, from you to write readibly, for others to comprehend. If you want to change something in your life, you must change.
Re-read that... "If you want to change something in your life, you must change." YOU MUST do something different in order to change your life, if you do not like it, or what you get from life currently it is your fault, you are not doing, or living as what would bring your desires to you.
You want help on the profile picture, I will not help you, as this must not have been a great issue, if you couldn't spare 5 extra seconds to write readibly.
Sorry for my stubborn-teachings but it is what I do that defines my life. And helping you with the answer would not make you, yourself change your own life.
Thank you for giving me the opportunity to write this message to you. I hope it does you well.
John Klyne